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This statement reflects your ability to trust that your partners will do what they promise. Trust is built incrementally over time—people say they will do something and then they do it. The more often this occurs, the higher the trust level. But when we don’t trust them to do what they say, we feel compelled to check up on them. This statement might also reveal a past orientation. If we’ve had a bitter experience and have low trust, we begin to expect to be let down by everyone.We need to think about how we can begin to expect people to live up to their agreements.

If you’re willing to give up something that’s important to you, ultimately it will come back to haunt you. Compromise sets up a lose-lose dynamic because in compromising, both parties lose the energy to resolve the conflict in a  collaborative way that will end it. Rather than giving in to the compromise, partners should try to figure out how to use
the energy to create a new solution in which both partners win.

When we hear a comment about ourselves that we don’t like, it often means that it has hit a nerve. We may recognize the trait being described quite well but adamantly deny it. The ability to accept feedback is closely associated with self-disclosure. Remember, feedback reflects as much on the giver as it does on the receiver. Be open to the feedback. And then see if others provide you with similar comments.